HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED FEELINGS OF INADEQUACY? YOU ARE
JUST 4 STEPS AWAY FROM DRAMATIC RESULTS!
I have been very fortunate in my travels to meet many people
from different backgrounds. These people often ask me
questions about improving their personal lives, and although
they are from different background, they all seem to be
experiences feelings of inadequacy that seem to be
controlling their lives.
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It was
those many conversations that encouraged me to create
this program to teach others how to master their
negative thoughts and feeling – and do it quickly.
Through my Four Step Process, your thinking and behavior
will begin to change after learning the tools on the
first CD alone. This is the same four step process I use
to assist millionaire CEOs, athletes or those I bring up
on stage at my live seminars.
One of the
most powerful parts of this program is the opportunity
to listen to two real one-on-one consultations with me.
These individuals have been through some incredible
tragedy in their lives and you will see how they applied
the principles taught in the program to create change.
You will also learn how to apply the methods shared to
any area of your life in order to achieve greater
results.
Have you
or do you know anyone who has had any of the following
feelings of inadequacy either presently or in the past?
• I’ll
never be as good as so and so.
• I don’t
deserve to be successful.
• I feel
guilty when I spend money or time on myself.
• I’m not
pretty enough.
• If I am
successful, people will judge me or think less of me.
• I always
sabotage my success with relationships, work, etc.
• I can’t
have my cake and eat it too.
• I have
to live up to others expectations.
• I don’t
deserve to be loved.
• I don’t
deserve better.
• I can
never do anything right.
• No one
will notice or care if I better myself.
• I am too
shy. What I have to say to others is stupid.
• No one
likes me.
• I can’t
say no to others.
• My ideas
are no good.
• I
deserve it. (Physical, mental or verbal abuse)
• I don’t
take compliments well.
• I’ll
never amount to anything.
• I’m
dependant on others.
• I can’t.
• I am a
failure.
• I am
stupid.
• I am not
worthy.
• I have
to do things for others to feel liked or loved by them.
• I have
to achieve things so as to get recognition.
Well, have
you? Have you ever had any of these thoughts before?
I’ll be the first to admit it! I certainly have. We can
have so many negative experiences in life that we can
become consumed by negative feelings and emotions. If we
are not careful these feelings can begin to control our
lives.
For
example, when I went through my divorce I felt that I
couldn’t do anything right and I felt a huge loss
of self worth. Since I allowed these negative
experiences to affect my behavior, I felt like a
failure and slowly began to self-destruct my
business until it was ruined. Then, I felt like I would
never amount to anything. It just got worse when
my father was murdered and my uncle was killed in a
plane crash.
I know you
can relate to thoughts of your negative experiences
consuming your energy. During this program you will
learn how to master and change those feelings of
inadequacy and, more importantly, do it quickly. Now, go
Discover the Perfect You!
CD 1
CD 1 is power packed. I waste no time in sharing with you
my four step process, which you will use to change any
negative behavior or thinking. I have used this same
process on millionaires, athletes, volunteers at live
seminars, and many others to create lasting change – and it
will work for you too!
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The first
area of discussion is to gain an understanding of why we
have good intentions toward attaining our goals but do
not follow through on them. This will create a solid
foundation on which to make all the necessary
adjustments in your thoughts and feelings.
The first
two exercises that I will share with you will enable you
to identify exactly what is controlling your life. These
will consist of both positive and negative things.
The third
exercise is to begin analyzing the thoughts that do not
benefit you. Once these are discovered you can learn how
to get rid of them. You will then connect any past
experiences to your analysis. You’ll discover some “ah
ha” moments in these exercises for sure. To create
lasting change, you will engage in a follow-up
evaluation process so that you can track your
improvement.
CD 2
This is where the fun really begins. In this session, you
get to work with the actual mechanics of the four step
process. Lasting results will be right around the corner
once you have the process mastered.
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Together
we will choose a specific feeling of inadequacy from the
first session and, using the four step process, learn
how to reverse or eliminate that specific negative
thought. Once you learn how to change one feeling of
inadequacy you will have the knowledge to change the
rest of them. That’s the different between me showings
you how to catch a fish and teaching you how. One
concept is temporary while the other lasts a lifetime.
Some
people believe you have to hit ‘rock bottom’ in order to
make lasting change. My explanation of this will change
your perception of what it means to hit ‘rock bottom’
and how an improper understanding of this concept can be
very dangerous.
You will
also learn why it is not beneficial to focus on changing
your results. While this may sound like an oxymoron, you
will see why a focus on the end result allows for
temporary results, if any at all. You will then identify
both positive and negative behaviors that you use to
reward your beliefs. This discovery will play a major
role in obtaining quick and lasting change.
CD 3
This session will take you to the next level. It’s time
now to put what I taught you from the previous session into
action. This is where we start testing your new four
step process.
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I am a
firm believer in mastering the ability to play games
with our minds instead of our minds playing games with
us. This is exactly what you are going to do as part of
this session. It’s control time. It’s time to control
how you think instead of other things or people
controlling it for you.
One of the
obstacles to making lasting change is our focus on past
experiences. You will learn how to avoid reliving past
experiences. This concept alone will give you lasting
results.
CD 4
By now you will have already learned the entire four step
process. Since repetition is the mother of retention, I
will give you yet another example as we walk through the
steps again.
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We will
choose one more of the feelings of inadequacy from the
first session. This will give you the opportunity to
practice and make sure you’ve learned how to put all the
pieces of the puzzle together.
It should
be quite obvious to you that much of this program
focuses a lot on changing your thoughts. You are going
to gain control over your thinking by converting
negative thoughts into positive thoughts using the four
step process. You will no longer be controlled by
someone or something else.
CD 5
At this point in the program you have learned all of the
necessary tools required to gain your desired results.
Since this program is aimed at changing behavior in order to
obtain results, I want to take this a step further. I want
you to listen to real people that have real world
challenges.
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Here you
will find a great benefit of this program – the
opportunity to listen to two full consultations. These
cases involve women who have been abused. Though your
challenges may be totally different from theirs, you
will gain a deeper understanding of the processes I have
shared with you. You will gain even great insight on how
to use and apply your new tools. You will also see that
this program can certainly be applied to many different
areas of life.
One
particular note of interest is that you will hear about
a young lady that had been on medication for over seven
years. After one personal consultation with me she was
able to overcome her need for medication and is still
medication free to this day. This program is that
powerful.
I am not
telling you to stop taking your medication. That would
certainly be something for you to decide with your
medical doctor. I do, however, know that for every
thought you act on you get a result. If you change the
though, you WILL change the result.
CD 6
While you have learned how to change your feelings and
behaviors, moving on from negative experiences and past
tragedies is certainly not easy. Anger or guilt that we
store internally can prevent us from moving ahead and
destroy us from the inside out.
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I am going
to share with you another process that will help you
heal quickly. I view this process as one that will clean
up any negative emotions that remain after experiencing
tragedy or emotional pain. You will feel a tremendous
weight lifted off of you after you complete this
exercise.
This
session doesn’t stop there. I will share with you three
simple ways for dealing with a bad day. After completing
this entire program you will then experience the freedom
of having emotional control over your life because you
have Discovered The Perfect You!